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              Why do we blush whenever the issue of sex is mentioned?  I think it's because by its nature it's a very personal part of us. It's that intimate part of ourselves. Of course, not everyone thinks this way. I was viewing a page on  Instagram yesterday, and someone in the comment section of a very popular page said --and I quote- "Abeg e sex na like handshake". This statement cheapens the sexual act and reduces it to nothing but a handshake, and robs it of all its glory. Talking about sex makes some people very uneasy. It's a subject matter that some have come to avoid totally and shy away from. It ought not to be. Our sexuality is part of our makeup, and just like the other aspects of our makeup, it ought to be expressed in a natural and healthy way. Bestiality, rape, and pedophilia are some very unnatural expressions of sexuality. We have to pay attention to our sexuality and nurture it, so we can become more balanced individuals.     My sexual

                                                            Weddings. I'm not so fond of them. Perhaps its all  the greeting that has to be done, or maybe its the high level of interaction required.. I would rather avoid interaction with other people, since . I'm kind of awkawrd around people  I've just met. Predictably,  have a certain distaste for weddings and in fact most social gatherings.      I recently attended one with my mother, who is vivacious, has an outgoing personality, and predictably has a fondness for all things socializing.     We met our hosts at a predetermined  place and after waiting an eternity for the ladies to put on their makeup, we embarked on a very long journey from Egbeda to Ajah, which took about two and a half hours. The company I was traveling with, was to a large extent, the main reason the journey took so long. It was comprised of women in their fifties, who unfortunately did not enjoy speeding as the rest of the males on board. It

                                   Ever had so much to do, you had no idea where to begin?  Maybe you found that you had an upcoming test, a long overdue dinner date, chores and a seemingly endless list of other IMPORTANT things to do. It could be overwhelming right? I know. I've been there. Thee have been occasions when I had so much to do, I just wanted to bury myself in a hole, and shut everything out.       But let's be real, you can't do that. If you did, who would take your calculus test for you? Who would have the time to go visit your sick mum and pay attention to her as you would. Okay, you get the picture. With the plethora of things and situations around us vying for our attention, it's only fitting that we devise some strategy to help us bring some order to our sometimes chaotic lives.  So where to begin. HIGHLIGHT YOUR TASKS I consistently find that when I write down all the things I want to do, It unclutters my mind, and frees up some space so I can